I’m a 29-year-old gay man residing in California. What makes many tops such assholes? We have had a good amount of intimate lovers ranging in age, ethnicity, and expressed sexual orientation. But just what unites all of them is a broad callousness toward bottoms and even a pleasure into the knowledge it is they whom have to “use and abuse” bottoms.
Is it a social artifact? The notion is found by me of placing some other person in discomfort for my pleasure so repulsive that We have yet to top anybody. I’m beginning to genuinely believe that pleasurable intercourse is for tops alone, and bottoms are expected to simply shut up and simply simply simply take whatever they are able to get free from it. (more…)